::I just realised that all the guys i know who have blogs (what a mouthful) use floober chatterbox, whereas the girls use this weird text thing which so happens to be the only tagboard i can access in my office because of the firewall the paranoid computer guys in the office set up. (breathe)

And because of that, i can only tag the girls. Which makes me kinda like a flirt. But then again, i'm a flirt. So ladies, if i'm talking to you, i'm not trying to be nice, or a bigger brother, or a nice stranger who so happens to want to know your name, telephone no and the place where you stay. i'm a flirt who needs validation. That's who i am.

Once a friend asked me

"Hey man, there's this one girl that's really cool as a friend but she's so hot i can't just be her friend. What should i do?"

My answer,

"Introduce her to me"

Anyway, how does this flirt thing works?

i'm a guy, you're a girl
i talk to you
you respond
i'm flirting?

I'm a guy, you're a girl
i call you
you respond
i'm flirting?

I'm a guy, you're a guy
i frubs you
you respond
i'm...sick?
Okay i'll stop

Anyway, i had this chat with lang not too long ago and we had this amazingly interesting topic. I can't quote everything we said (in fact, i don't think i can quote anything we said) but it was about why guys seek girls attention or something like that. I think we were drunk on milo peng. Well, it's like a trophy when a girl calls you good looking. It's funny how guys can get so animated when girls are around. Sometimes, i'm guilty. Voice gets louder, actions exagerated even digging your nose can be exaggerated, like using your thumb. The funnier thing though, is that the girls actually like it. It's absolutely amazely hilarious. No they don't? That's what you say. Don't let me catch you playing that "mimi" game.

I guess it's hard not to make girls a part of our life cause God made them beautiful and guys are not meant to be alone but i'm guessing, if they are the ones we look towards for validation, we're going down the wrong track. I mean, go ahead and socialise, be friends, one day you will need to marry. But don't lead people on. Don't be like me. If you're not sure who's the right girl (there isn't THE ONE), i say widen your social circle. You don't have to get into a relationship to find out who the girl really is. People use that excuse all the time. In fact, on the contrary, people tend to act themselves in groups. WHAT A SURPRISE! I'm sure you knew that already.

Well, i'm learning this. And it's getting harder each day. My heart cries out for a woman. But in my head, i know i'm not ready. But you'll never know. I'm might be ready tomorrow ;)
Correction: I'm sure i'm ready tomorrow

lol, i don't even know what i'm saying now
okay, i leave you girls with this

"If i want to get to know you, I can be the nicest person in the whole wide world." "Nice guys" should finish last.::

.:I blogged on 4:27 PM:.
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